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Read the passage.

excerpt from "First Love"
Judith Ortiz Cofer

In the meantime, I tried desperately to see him. I thought he would look for me too. But the few times I saw him in the hallway, he was always rushing away. It would be long weeks of confusion and pain before I realized that the kiss was nothing but a little trophy for his ego. He had no interest in me other than as his adorer. He was flattered by my silent worship of him, and he had bestowed a kiss on me to please himself, and to fan the flames. I learned a lesson about the battle of the sexes then that I have never forgotten: The object is not always to win, but most times simply to keep your opponent (synonymous at times with “the loved one”) guessing.

Refer to Explorations in Literature for a complete version of this narrative.

Which statement best explains how Cofer shapes the theme that an act can mean different things for different people in the passage?

She explains that "the kiss was nothing but a little trophy for his ego."

She explains that, afterward, she only "saw him in the hallway."

She shares that she "learned a lesson about the battle of the sexes."