my friend asked me if I could un pack her belongings in her new home, since she's my friend I didn't want to make her unhappy because she's my friend. but now I end up doing almost all of her packing & it backfires for me. sometimes it's good to say "no." or a simple "I don't have time, I'm sorry." you should stand your ground & never ever be a people pleaser, because most people will find that about you, and take advantage of that.